The Daily Reprieve
An (unofficial) Sexaholics Anonymous podcast featuring SA speaker meetings, workshops, conventions and marathons. An SA meeting in a Podcast
Episodes
Friday Mar 22, 2024
(Step Study) Step 5 - Brendan T - Ireland
Friday Mar 22, 2024
Friday Mar 22, 2024
Welcome to another empowering episode of The Daily Reprieve, a podcast dedicated to your spiritual growth. Today's story revolves around a speaker's candid talk on his lifelong hunger for attention and validation. Discover how his voyage towards self-realization accelerated through the fifth step in the 12-step recovery program.Our speaker, from childhood, was engulfed by the need for attentiveness, adopting disorderly behaviour if it attracted attention. This trait continued into adulthood with a perpetual tendency to rebel against regulations just for the thrill of it. His incessant need to be at the center of attention, even in times of his own confusion, placed a thick veil over his insecurities.His life took a dramatic turn when he embarked on the transformative journey of the 12-step recovery program. After completing the fourth step and anxiously waiting to proceed, a meeting with a sober mentor furnished a realization that the fifth step was within reach at any given time.Building up courage, he shared his fourth step with a stranger, a priest on a South Pacific island. The liberating feeling of openness and the priest's non-judgmental understanding provided a fresh outlook on life. Upon vocalizing his fourth step, he understood that his rebellious and attention-seeking tendencies were merely defenses around his deep-seated insecurities.This episode delicately traces the speaker's path from external validation to individual awareness. His illuminating story serves as a reminder of the value of personal acceptance and the transformative power of the fifth step. The speaker openly shares his quest for validation, acceptance, and forgiveness, mirroring the struggles he underwent.The speaker stresses the transformative process of sharing their struggles, adhering to the guidance of Alcoholics Anonymous, and seeking empathy over judgment. The narrative charged with symbolic resonance, unfolds on Holy Thursday, intertwining the fear of condemnation with the joyful relief of acceptance, forgiveness, and liberation.The episode concludes with a beacon of hope, underlining the need for responsibility, openness, and empathy while discussing each other's stories and fears. The speaker asserts that sharing and accepting each other's deepest shame invites us all to a common ground, paving the way towards collective healing, understanding, and recovery. Tune into The Daily Reprieve to learn more about personal journeys, acceptance, and healing. Consider supporting us by making a donation at donate.thedailyreprieve.com. Your contribution helps us continue producing inspiring content.
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
(Step Study) Step 4 - Brendan T - Ireland
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
Wednesday Mar 20, 2024
In this insightful episode of The Daily Reprieve, join our speaker, Brendan, as he delves deep into his own journey of recovery. He puts a spotlight on the transformative power of Step Four of the famous Twelve Steps recovery program. Brendan initiates the discussion with the handful acknowledgment of powerlessness over addiction, gradually transitioning into the transformative belief in a higher power, demonstrating the amount of hard work and introspection required to truly progress in the recovery program.Brendan recalls his early days in recovery, the fear of falling back into addiction catalyzing his work on the fourth step. He shares his experiences utilizing resources like the Hazelden guide and the insightful Joe and Charlie tapes. He indicates how following a structured, column method saved him from being overwhelmed while tackling the fourth step.In this moving narration, Brendan underlines that honesty played a pivotal role in his recovery. He shed light on the importance of recognizing and admitting to selfish behaviors that had affected those around him. The speaker also discusses the necessity of overcoming a victim mindset to truly attain internal acceptance and freedom.Through numerous attempts at completing the fourth step, Brendan eventually established a unique approach. By associating his feelings with past actions, he performed deep self-examinations, identifying past erroneous attitudes and actions corroborating his transformation and recovery journey.The podcast further discusses the immense challenge involved in the fourth step, where many face the struggle of accepting and confronting the unease that comes with self-discovery. However, Brendan underscores that this intimidating journey ultimately leads to personal liberation and spiritual growth.Brendan reflects on his experience at a significant workshop, where he witnessed individuals opening up to the idea of making amends with those who had once caused them pain. He discusses the significance of overcoming resentment, describing it as a formidable barrier to spiritual development. Providing an invigorating outlook on the fourth step, Brendan labels it as the "main cog" in leading towards active transformation and self-reconciliation. This episode emphasizes that the fourth step's thorough completion is a strong foundation for successfully progressing through the subsequent steps in the recovery journey, ultimately leading to self-forgiveness.This episode is proudly presented by The Daily Reprieve, your ultimate source for personal experiences, strength, and hope for those embarking on a similar journey. Tune in again for more enriching episodes!
Monday Mar 18, 2024
(Step Study) Step 3 - Brendan T - Ireland
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Monday Mar 18, 2024
Welcome to an episode of The Daily Reprieve where we present Brendan's candid and inspiring tale of addiction recovery. Brendan, a self-professed sexaholic, shares his journey through struggle and solitude, and the salvation he discovers in the third step of his recovery process - making the enlightening decision to surrender to a higher power.We explore the vivid nuances of the recovery process, focusing on the pivotal step three where Brendan decided to yield his life to Mother Nature, his choice of a higher power. Drawing from the wisdom of the indigenous cultures and his newfound understanding, Brendan uses this guiding principle to propel himself toward the next stages of his recovery in a determined attempt to achieve sobriety.Brendan's recounts of his past shows the destructive force of addiction. His relentless obsession with alcohol, lust, and drugs almost cost him his life, and his path to recovery was far from easy. Despite these adversities, he persevered and today, shares his honest and raw experiences in hopes of inspiring others who are similarly struggling.The discussion goes in-depth into the invaluable teachings of the Big Book and the role of the Third Step in the liberation from sex addiction. Brendan asserts that the decision to let God or a higher power - in his case, Mother Nature - take control, can lead to transformative changes and ultimately, to victory against the addiction.Join us for this eye-opening episode where Brendan's story illustrates the transformative power of step three, the decision to give one's life over to the care of God or a higher power. His testament serves as a beacon of hope for those battling against sex addiction. Tune in now and find the courage to take control of your life and make the leap towards recovery.
Friday Mar 15, 2024
(Step Study) Step 2 Part 2 - Brendan T - Ireland
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Friday Mar 15, 2024
Welcome to a captivating episode of The Daily Reprieve, an enlightening podcast featuring insightful essay readings, speaker meetings, workshops, and conferences. As we continue promoting our ad-free and self-supporting format, we humbly urge our valued listeners to help us maintain this quality by making a donation at donate.thedailyreprieve.com.In this episode, we welcome our remarkable guest speaker, Brendan, who brilliantly navigates the complex nuances of spirituality and sobriety. Brendan shares his intriguing experience of overcoming his mixed feelings towards traditional faith practices and finding peace and fortitude in nature and the enduring bond that indigenous farming communities in Latin America share with Pachamama – Mother Earth.Listen as Brendan skillfully maps his spiritual journey to sobriety, weaving a tale of relocated faith, conquered resentment, and the discovery and acceptance of a higher power that is deeply rooted in nature’s harmonious beauty and inherent wisdom. His spiritual evolution serves as an eye-opening revelation of the varied paths available in the mutual pursuit of spirituality and sobriety.This episode also highlights an emotional trek to Machu Picchu, a significant milestone marking Brendan’s first year of sobriety. The journey offers a humorous yet humbling reminder of how the road to self-growth and sobriety constantly keeps us grounded, and the intertwining of past blunders and present achievements truly encapsulates the transformative road to sobriety.Join us herein Embracing the Journey: A Sobriety Story from Machu Picchu; an awe-striking tale of struggle, spiritual awakening, gratitude, and poignant lessons.
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
(Step Study) Step 2 - Brendan T - Ireland
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
Wednesday Mar 13, 2024
In this riveting new episode of The Daily Reprieve, we take a deep dive into the intimate spiritual journey of a recovering alcoholic. Unpacking the complex yet illuminating stages of his sobriety journey using the 12-step rehabilitation program, the episode presents a sincere exploration of spirituality and its role in overcoming addiction.From acknowledging the influence of alcohol on his life to carving out his relationship with a Higher Power, our guest generously shares his own personal narrative. This raw and emotional account maps his struggles, his spiritual awakening, and his relentless pursuit of sobriety. Throughout this narration, his honesty and courage paint a resonant picture of hope and recovery for many grappling with similar battles.The episode also encompasses engrossing discussions about his evolving spiritual perspectives. Drawing from various philosophies and spiritual traditions, from Indigenous beliefs to Buddhism and Christianity his journey offers unique insights into spirituality's transformative influence on his lifestyle and worldview.At the heart of this emotionally charged episode are critical questions about spirituality's function. Is the realm of spirituality more about fostering a harmonious co-existence with others? Could the quality of one's relationship with a higher power be implicitly tied to how one treats others, irrespective of their religious affiliation?In light of these profound discussions, the episode asserts the critical role of gratitude in one's recovery journey. Our guest underscores the importance of acknowledging the divine force's role in guiding us through life's adversities, likening this gratitude to spiritual strength.This episode culminates with our guest's recounting of incredible events that further affirm his faith in the divine order of life. A powerful testament of enduring hope and spiritual awakening, this episode encourages everyone to face their struggles head-on and strive for a healthier, happier life.Subscribe to The Daily Reprieve for more profound discussions and personal accounts that bring strength, hope, and support for those in recovery. Visit donate.thedailyreprieve.com to contribute to our mission and follow us for many more such enriching narratives.
Monday Mar 11, 2024
(Step Study) Step 1 - Brendan T - Ireland
Monday Mar 11, 2024
Monday Mar 11, 2024
Welcome to a powerful episode of The Daily Reprieve Podcast that takes you through a gripping narrative of personal struggle, the pursuit of sobriety over a period of 15 years, and the triumph in finding strength within powerlessness.The episode proffers a raw, unfiltered exploration into the life of Brendan, an individual grappling with the chains of sex addiction. It reflects upon the profound loneliness and fear of losing oneself to fantasy, as well as the powerlessness experienced in trying to change the status quo. The story illustrates how the protagonist's addiction created a mental blockade, negatively impacting his ability to form genuine connections and leading to a perpetual emptiness. A deeper dive into his life reveals years of chaos, coupled with problems and mini-catastrophes exacerbated by the strenuous hold of addiction. Yet, Brendan's story is far from demoralizing. He returns to university in his 50s, battling self-doubt and perfectionism. The subsequent part of the narrative illuminates the essence of surrender, of accepting oneself and letting kindness, compassion, and honesty guide the journey toward recovery. Brendan recognizes his lifelong inability to 'control' his own life but embraces the duty of maintaining sobriety, having faith, and performing the tasks that a higher power seems to have assigned to him. It isn't about flashy triumphs, but about self-acceptance, grappling with personal problems, and trying to get through each day. This episode is a testament to personal growth, the power of perseverance, and the importance of self-compassion during one's struggle with sobriety. Imbued with raw experiences and emotions of journeying through addiction, the narrative sends a resonating message of hopefulness and resilience to those who may be undergoing similar trials.
Friday Mar 08, 2024
(Step Study) Introduction - Brendan T - Ireland
Friday Mar 08, 2024
Friday Mar 08, 2024
In this deeply moving and monumental episode of The Daily Reprieve, the spotlight is on a guest speaker who boldly recounts a life marked by the highs and lows of personal addiction. With candor and introspection, he explores his addictive behaviors and their profound impact on his interpersonal relationships and everyday life.Dipping into the raw and unfiltered chronicles of his addiction, the speaker confesses his struggle with societal conformity, his feelings of disruption, and an obsessive entanglement with unhealthy habits. From alcohol to substance abuse, it's a distressing tale of a relentless quest for dopamine hits that precipitated a whirlwind life of personal losses and degrading experiences.The chaos fueled by addiction didn't leave any aspect of his life untouched, leading to a crumbling marriage and a disillusioned perspective towards emotional bonds. But this saga of self-destruction takes another unsettling turn as he finds solace in brothels and rehabilitation centers.With an unwavering courage, our speaker shares a revealing firsthand account of his countless attempts at recovery, his destructive relationships, and the uphill struggle to break free from the chains of addiction.Despite the turbulence and guilt that marked his life, our speaker highlights a silver lining: a testament of persistence, courage, and strength. Against all odds, he paints an inspiring picture of his ongoing recovery, opening a new chapter of freedom, sobriety, and a renewed hope for reconnecting emotionally.Such an impactful dose of one man's tale of addiction, recovery, and personal growth serves as a stark reminder of the resilience and hope that can shine through even in the face of life's most formidable challenges.
Wednesday Feb 28, 2024
Monday Feb 26, 2024
Friday Feb 23, 2024